I think most would agree that the clitoris is the key to most orgasms.
Whilst many women claim they are unable to orgasm through vaginal sex only, I think it’s fair to say that even if you are able, a little bit (or a lot) of clitoral play, never hurt anybody!
Actually, experts reckon the number of women unable to orgasm through penetration alone is close to 70 per cent, yet you still have a load of uneducated men that believe thrusting and slamming her into oblivion will somehow take her to the point of no return…
NO!
Now listen carefully men (and women), in all honesty, vaginal orgasms are pretty rare. Most orgasms don’t happen unless there is some kind of clitoral stimulation involved, that’s a fact!
Sooooo, let’s stop the energizer bunny action and get with the programme!
Whilst hitting that G-spot will without a doubt give the overall feel of a vaginal orgasm, chances are no matter how well you’re hitting it, this won’t happen without some good old stimulation either.
Let’s look at the science behind this…
There are no nerve endings in the vagina.
This could be seen as a bonus when you consider childbirth – that’s painful enough without the extra input from a bunch of rattled nerve endings, but let us also consider the clitoris is like 90% more than what we see on the surface. Think of it as an iceberg! With that in mind, it’s not difficult to accept the idea that being penetrated at a particular angle i.e. the missionary position, will get good results. This is because the clitoris is still being stimulated massively by not only the underside (hidden below what we see) but also from the friction of the body on top.
Win, win right?
Yaay for clitoral stimulation!
Thing is, if you are being penetrated and stimulated in this way, the orgasm could be mistaken for a vaginal orgasm when really it’s still clitoral!
As mentioned before, a vaginal orgasm is not an impossibility but it’s definitely very rare.
Exploring yourself and doing those Kegels could help you on your way to a successful vaginal orgasm if that’s your aim.
Exploring because….well, it makes sense and Kegels because strengthening those vaginal walls will help locate the G-spot which will in turn provide pleasure.
Side note: if you are trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm through penetrative sex, doggy style is probably the best position to do so.
Why?
Well, he gets to apply pressure and the slight arching of his penis whilst inside you will stimulate the G-spot.
Again win, win!
What’s the bottom line though…ermmm come on now, clitoral stimulation of course!
If ever in doubt, clit stim!
