Many of you have probably heard the term ‘pegging’ either in passing or in context but truth be told, there are a bunch of people out there that will have no clue what it means and believe me, it has absolutely nothing to do with hanging out the washing!
So what is PEGGING?
In a nutshell, ‘pegging’ is when one person wears a strap on dildo to have penetrative sex with another….bottom line!
Usually, the person being penetrated is a man and the penetrator is a woman.
It could be a couple’s thing!
Think of it as a role reversal…
Usher said it best actually…
His lyrics from one of his songs; Trading Places went like this;
I’m always on the top tonight I’m on the bottom
Cause we trading places
When I can’t take no more, tell me you ain’t stopping
Cause we trading places
Now put it on me baby till I say Oooo weee
And tell me to shut up before the neighbors hear me
This is how it feels when you do it like me
We trading places…
OK…do you have a visual yet?
Man on the bottom, women on the top?
Interestingly, research has shown that men are less nervous about the idea of pegging than women are.
If you are a straight bloke, you are reading this and you’ve never indulged or had the desire to indulge in pegging before, you could well be screwing up your face in disgust or wincing at the idea of being penetrated.
Well this is the point where you get over yourself…
Many men (including straight men, yes) enjoying pegging because of one major reason…
Can you guess?
That’s right….the P-spot!
The P-spot is the male version of the female G spot and is found just a few inches inside a man’s bum.
When stimulated, the prostate gland can provide an amazingly intense kind of pleasure for a man and no, it does not mean you are gay if you like anal play.
In fact, anal stimulation is much more popular with men that are straight than you could care to imagine. It’s just the stigma that comes with enjoying this kind of stimulation that puts most men off from sharing.
So ladies, if your man hints at the idea of some backdoor fun, don’t rule it out and certainly don’t make him feel any less of a man for suggesting and guys, if your lady runs the idea of spicing things up with a bit of pegging, don’t presume she’s being disrespectful, she’s only looking out for you and your pleasure (wink).
If you are new to pegging, remember start off easy with a slim line dildo/strap on and invest in lots of lube.
It could also be worth throwing down an old towel or sheet… just in case!
