Now we all know dating can be tricky business.
A billion questions run through one’s mind such as; is he/she really who they say they are?
Will they like me?
Should we have sex on the first date?
How about a kiss?
So many questions…not so many answers.
So, guys, to help you on your way to even getting that first kiss, here are a few dating tips that could help you out:
- First impressions count.
Yes, she will notice your battered shoes or the stain on your jeans and that spot that you have been picking on your face for the last day or two, yep, she will notice that too!
First impressions definitely count so make sure you put your best foot forward and show up looking decent but most of all…clean and tidy!———————————————————————————————————————————–
- Confidence not arrogance
Confidence is always a good look, but arrogance is not!
Don’t run the risk of ‘over do-ing’ it by trying too hard. Just be yourself and imagine you’re in the company of someone you have known for a while.———————————————————————————————————————————–
- Great conversation is a must.
Ensure you have some interesting conversation starters up your sleeve but try not to be too corny and most importantly, let her talk! It’s easy to get carried away with a topic you feel particularly passionate about but the more she attempts to get a word in edgeways and the more you prevent her from doing so, the more Brownie points you lose!———————————————————————————————————————————–
- Put the phone away!
No need to elaborate…no one wants to feel in competition with Whatsapp, Twitter or Facebook so if you have to check your phone, keep it minimal.———————————————————————————————————————————–
- Don’t mention the ex!
Again…a self-explanatory tip which makes perfect sense.———————————————————————————————————————————–
- No BS needed.
Once the first date is over, if you find yourself being asked to meet again (yes some women are that forward), be sure it is what you want. Nobody likes a timewaster so if you have already realised that she is not the one for you, do not lead her on with false promises like; I’ll call you or we can hook up next week.
Keep it real!